Episode 326
The Kids are Not Alright. Are We? #skinnytok #tiktoxic (feat. Dr. Jillian Lampert)
Eating disorders and bullying prevention isn't just about what our kids eat; it's about protecting them from the toxic messages bombarding them every single day. Think your child is safe because they're not on TikTok yet? Think again. Think you’re safe because you’re an adult? The dangerous world of "skinny tok" and diet culture is reaching all of us whether they're scrolling social media or not.
In this eye-opening episode of Salad With a Side of Fries, host Jenn Trepeck gets real with Dr. Jillian Lampert about the scary stuff happening online and in schoolyards. Dr. Lampert opens up about her own eating disorder recovery and breaks down why some kids (and adults) are more vulnerable than others. Plus, she shares practical ways to help you and your kids spot BS social media messages and handle weight-related bullying, because let's face it, kids talk, and they're hearing this stuff even without a phone in their hands.
What You Will Learn in This Episode:
✅ Why genetic predisposition to eating disorders matters more than you think, and how to recognize if your child is at higher risk based on family history and specific genetic markers related to anxiety, metabolism, and inflammation.
✅ The real connection between bullying prevention and body image, including how weight-related comments (even "compliments") can trigger dangerous disordered eating behaviors.
✅ Essential media literacy skills everyone needs, and especially parents need to teach their children, right now, even if they're not on social media yet, because kids are absorbing toxic "skinny tok" messages from their peers regardless.
✅ How weight loss medications are creating a new wave of moral judgment and intensifying body dissatisfaction across all ages, and what this means for the future of eating disorder treatment and prevention.
The Salad With a Side of Fries podcast, hosted by Jenn Trepeck, explores real-life wellness and weight-loss topics, debunking myths, misinformation, and flawed science surrounding nutrition and the food industry. Let’s dive into wellness and weight loss for real life, including drinking, eating out, and skipping the grocery store.
TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Dr. Lampert introduces the genetic markers linked to eating disorders and their connection to anxiety, metabolism, and inflammation
01:00 Book launch announcement - October 29th, 2025. Uncomplicating Wellness is now available. Zoom launch event at 7:00 PM ET
06:26 Dr. Lampert shares her personal eating disorder recovery story, revealing how bullying as a kid and diet praise triggered her life-threatening condition
11:20 Understanding the genetic predisposition to eating disorders, why 9% of people develop eating disorders, the toxic diet culture, and the science behind nutritional psychiatry
16:11 How we swung back from body positivity to obsessive thinness, discussion of body dissatisfaction, and the dangerous impact of weight loss medications
22:51 Why "skinny tok" affects all ages an demographics on social media, the critical media literacy skills needed and the direct link between weight-related bullying, body image, and eating disorder onset
28:33 A powerful story illustrating how weight-related bullying reveals the bully's own insecurities and body dissatisfaction, and understanding self-cyberbullying
35:21 Teaching media literacy skills and learning to reset your social media feeds, and real-life diet culture algorithms
40:43 The connection between the loneliness epidemic post-pandemic and the rise in cyberbullying and balancing social media's lifesaving community connections
48:41 Dr. Lampert's final wisdom
KEY TAKEAWAYS:
💎 Eating disorders are 60% genetic. People with a history of eating disorders can share genetic markers in three key areas: anxiety, metabolism, and inflammation. This explains why only 9% of the population develops eating disorders despite everyone living in the same toxic diet culture environment.
💎 The seemingly innocent compliment like "you look great" after weight loss can be the dangerous trigger that starts someone down the path of disordered eating behaviors. Dr. Lampert's story reveals how positive attention for losing weight made her feel noticed and valued for the first time, reinforcing unsafe eating behaviors that became life-threatening.
💎 Your child doesn't need to be on social media to be affected by diet culture. Media literacy skills are essential for all kids because they absorb messages from peers who are consuming content. Parents must teach children to ask critical questions, such as "What is this person trying to sell us?" regardless of screen time.
💎 Weight-related bullying is never about the victim; it's a projection of the bully's own body dissatisfaction and insecurity. Understanding this doesn't erase the pain, but it's a crucial insight for helping kids process hurtful comments and recognize that appearance-based judgment stems from societal pressure we all face.
ABOUT THE GUEST:
Dr. Jillian Lampert (she/her) is the Vice President of Strategy and Public Affairs at Accanto Health, the parent company of The Emily Program and Gather Behavioral Health, where she leads corporate communications, public affairs, and advocacy efforts. She also serves as Executive Director of The Emily Program Foundation. She is Co-Founder and President of the REDC, a national consortium focused on eating disorder treatment standards, access, and research. A Board Member and past Treasurer of the Eating Disorders Coalition, she also holds an adjunct faculty position at the University of Minnesota. Dr. Lampert earned her PhD in Nutrition and Epidemiology and MPH in Public Health Nutrition from the University of Minnesota, and an MS in Nutrition from the University of Vermont. A Fellow of the Academy for Eating Disorders, she has authored numerous publications on nutrition, body image, and eating disorder treatment and frequently speaks nationwide on these topics. Drawing from her personal experience with an eating disorder, she is deeply committed to expanding access to care and fostering body confidence and self-compassion for people of all ages.
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QUOTES:
07:36 "I was a smart kid, and I had gotten bullied for being smart, and years later heard that the kids picked on me because they were bored. What on earth is that all about?" - Dr. Jillian Lampert
10:46 "There's always a nature-nurture debate in anything, and especially as we talk about bullying and social media and all these pieces, that feels very ‘nurture’." - Jenn Trepeck
15:45 "I remember when Dove did their real women campaign, and I remember it being groundbreaking and also being like, duh, right? But today we're back to ‘skinny is the only thing that matters’ in a lot of the messaging." - Jenn Trepeck
19:06 “One of the reasons I wrote Uncomplicating Wellness, because I think for the adult side it's every biohack and the wellness language is just diet culture for today.” Jenn Trepeck
19:17 "I think the weight loss meds play into this because there are times where we would feel or be made to feel that it is a moral failing when you have this craving." - Jenn Trepeck
20:57 “Industrialized society has been obsessed with fixing things with medicine forever, for as long as there have been medicines and advertisements. So I think the idea that we can fix our body weight with a new magic medicine is really kind of scary.” Dr. Jillian Lampert
22:17 "There's a villainizing of specific foods and food in general that's coming at us from all angles." - Jenn Trepeck
KEYWORDS:
Jenn Trepeck, Salad With A Side Of Fries, Nutrition Nugget, Health Coach, Weight Loss For Real Life, Dr. Jillian Lampert, Body Image, Social Media And Mental Health, Diet Culture, skinny tok, Weight Loss Medications, Bullying Prevention, Genetic Predisposition To Eating Disorders, Adolescent Mental Health, Body Positivity, Media Literacy Skills, Disordered Eating Behaviors, Weight Related Bullying, Anorexia Nervosa, Binge Eating Disorder, Nutritional Psychiatry, Gut Brain Connection, Body Dissatisfaction, Eating Disorder Treatment, Parenting And Social Media, Youth Wellness, Genetic Markers For Eating Disorders In Adolescents, How Social Media Affects Teen Body Image And Mental Health, The Emily Program, Gather Behavioral Health, Social Media, eating disorder treatment standards, Eating Disorders Coalition, National Bullying Prevention Month
